My grandparents had 14 children.
My mom can name each of her siblings like an auctioneer calls a new high bid. Carol Ann Kathy John Mark Robert Patrick Michael Jim Tom Martha Anne Bill Mary Joe An Irish Catholic family, growing up in Lakeland, Florida. My grandfather was a dentist in WWII. He chose the profession because, growing up during the Great Depression, he noticed the local dentist was one of the few who ate. In Lakeland grandpa switched to orthodonture-- The only one in town. At his funeral last year, I learned he broke the law. He ignored the dictates of the Jim Crow South and insisted that everyone use the front door. His waiting area didn’t separate black and white. Everyone used the same chairs. He insisted on fair treatment for all. When they cleaned out his office, and looked at his records, they found scores of patients who only paid $1 a month for their teeth, Because he believed poor folks deserved straight teeth, too. His wife of 70 years supported his decision to break the law and fix teeth for virtually free. In fact, she encouraged it. They had 14 mouths to feed, but they thought the risk was worth it. Their faith demanded it. “God will always provide,” grandma insisted. And, for them, He provided in abundance. I come from humble, decent stock, Who stood up against injustice In small, quiet ways. Resistors through simple actions.
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3/11/2017 09:34:10 am
Such a beautiful tribute to your grandparents! I'm so glad you learned about this. They must have been incredible people. :)
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3/11/2017 09:43:51 am
I truly loved this! I'm sure it wasn't easy for them, but easy didn't seem to be their motivation! BEAUTIFUL
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Adrienne
3/11/2017 10:21:43 am
What a beautiful story and a beautiful example for the rest of us. Quiet resistance.
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Mary Ann Reilly
3/11/2017 10:23:55 am
Such an important piece of history to record and in doing so preserve especially in these days. Good stock, yes.
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3/11/2017 10:49:05 am
What an amazing testament to your family! It would have been wonderful to have heard his/their stories.
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Sonja Schulz
3/11/2017 07:45:45 pm
beautiful slice---so heartfelt and strong. quiet resistors are heroes. thanks to your grandparents for all they did.
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What a wonderful tribute -- I will remember this post forever, especially because of the photo, I absolutely love it. What a wonderful, wonderful history you have.
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Failingreatly
3/11/2017 11:17:08 pm
Thank you so much for sharing this history. Stories like this, the ones that aren't on the news, but happen in day to day life, under the radar, are so inspirational to hear, especially right now, in this polarized country. You must be so proud.
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Brian Kissel is an Associate Professor of education at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte. His focus is writing instruction. He lives in North Carolina with his wife, Hattie and three kiddos: Charlie, Ben, and Harriet.
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