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Quiet Resistors

3/11/2017

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My grandparents had 14 children. 
    My mom can name each of her siblings like an auctioneer calls a new high bid.
         Carol Ann
         Kathy
         John
         Mark
         Robert
         Patrick
         Michael
         Jim
         Tom
         Martha
         Anne
         Bill
         Mary
         Joe
An Irish Catholic family, growing up in Lakeland, Florida.
 
My grandfather was a dentist in WWII.
    He chose the profession because, growing up during the Great Depression,
    he noticed the local dentist was one of the few who ate.
In Lakeland grandpa switched to orthodonture--
    The only one in town.
 
At his funeral last year, I learned he broke the law.
    He ignored the dictates of the Jim Crow South and insisted that everyone use
          the front door.
    His waiting area didn’t separate black and white.
    Everyone used the same chairs.
    He insisted on fair treatment for all.
When they cleaned out his office, and looked at his records,
     they found scores of patients who only paid $1 a month for their teeth,
     Because he believed poor folks deserved straight teeth, too.
 
His wife of 70 years supported his decision to break the law and fix teeth for virtually free.
     In fact, she encouraged it.
     They had 14 mouths to feed, but they thought the risk was worth it.
     Their faith demanded it.
     “God will always provide,” grandma insisted.
     And, for them, He provided in abundance. 
 
I come from humble, decent stock,
     Who stood up against injustice
     In small, quiet ways.
Resistors through simple actions. 

9 Comments
Aggiekesler link
3/11/2017 09:34:10 am

Such a beautiful tribute to your grandparents! I'm so glad you learned about this. They must have been incredible people. :)

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Noël link
3/11/2017 09:41:47 am

You did your grandpa proud. What a great tribute to him and a reminder to us all of great values. (even if it means breaking the law)

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PaulaBourque link
3/11/2017 09:43:51 am

I truly loved this! I'm sure it wasn't easy for them, but easy didn't seem to be their motivation! BEAUTIFUL

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Adrienne
3/11/2017 10:21:43 am

What a beautiful story and a beautiful example for the rest of us. Quiet resistance.

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Mary Ann Reilly
3/11/2017 10:23:55 am

Such an important piece of history to record and in doing so preserve especially in these days. Good stock, yes.

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PamLingelbach link
3/11/2017 10:49:05 am

What an amazing testament to your family! It would have been wonderful to have heard his/their stories.

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Sonja Schulz
3/11/2017 07:45:45 pm

beautiful slice---so heartfelt and strong. quiet resistors are heroes. thanks to your grandparents for all they did.

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Veronica link
3/11/2017 11:09:13 pm

What a wonderful tribute -- I will remember this post forever, especially because of the photo, I absolutely love it. What a wonderful, wonderful history you have.

I'm wondering about the resistance your Grandpa expressed in having such a large family, too. Was that the norm in his area? Was that the norm for his faith community?

I guess I feel this connection because we are 5-children strong in our family. Society tells us it's wrong (I'm getting this sense) or at the very least, counter-cultural to have so many children when society/the world/life is cracked the way it is. If your Grandpa adopted this thinking, he would have limited his family after having experienced the Great Depression.

Testifies to the strength of his faith. Your Grandma's too.

Thank you so much for this food for thought!

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Failingreatly
3/11/2017 11:17:08 pm

Thank you so much for sharing this history. Stories like this, the ones that aren't on the news, but happen in day to day life, under the radar, are so inspirational to hear, especially right now, in this polarized country. You must be so proud.

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